"Do individuals willingly choose to relocate and reside in a high-risk country, only to later shift blame onto the government when life-threatening situations arise, asserting that they have a profound sense of isolation?"
Even Americans will feel they are on their own living in such a dangerous country. Only those that went there under government ticket have the right to talk like this.
Otherwise if not, just ask for help politely.I've been there.You can't live freely in a country that is surrounded by enemies from all sides and that's why Israel introduced Iron dome defense system which intercept any missile coming towards their territory